Adam Leonard
Winning the fight .
I know it sounds like i might be about to talk about the methods of winning a boxing match but in fact its about our inner fire. We can all relate to having the wind knocked out of us due to being rejected in an interview or even by a lover. That rejection squashed our drive, our motivation and lowered our convidence. Often what happens after this is one of two things, we either pluck up our courage and try again, or we take a step back and think about where we went wrong.
Both tactics work well when used together. I know this sounds obvious but ive seen it happen over and over again, someone has lots of fight and keeps going for job after job after job with persistence that even an Olympic athlete would admire but still they keep getting nowhere. On the flip side of the coin you have someone that gets one rejection and reacts by over analysing where they went wrong so much so that they lose their fight entirely.
Its very easy to say ” i know im not going to do it” and when you fail say ” see i told you i wouldn’t do it”…. where is the winning in that? …. everyone can respect someone that fails but put their whole heart into trying to succeed. No one respects someone who doesnt put their heart into it and then claims they told you so.
Often the “I told you so” people are those that have lost their fight years ago and prefer to be the pesimistic know it all that prefers the comfort of a no risk lifestyle.
Risk IS the spice of life, without risk there there is no significant change and life turns into stagnation. Putting your whole heart into a risk is the best way to nudge the chance of success in your direction. If you fail you can always try again.
“If your trying to achieve something put your whole heart into it otherwise your just giving yourself something to moan about”
This is something that i thought would be appropriate to write about due to the powerful astrological constellation in the skies at the moment. I will talk about that more on the show.
see you there
Adam
Hi Adam,being a capricorn I am often stubborn and determined, but on the flip side I can be extremely pessimistic at times and will often look on the black side,not a good mix I know, but having had a lot of knock backs over the years it is sometimes hard to release yourself from that mindset,i have taken risks in my life one of which was moving away from my family and friends last year on my own (divorced 4 years) to a totally new area where I knew no-one to start afresh and be nearer to Paul,I have known him for 2 years and although we are not what you may term a proper couple yet, been told many times that this will happen.The risk I took was for me a very big one,I knew that I had to be here.
A couple of times he has thrown a wobbly shall we say and the hurt I felt almost made me give up on everything and I mean everything but with support from friends and yourselves I carried on, As a psychic you wil understand this that approx 6 months before i moved i started to get strong feelings that the house i was living in was only temporary and that i would be moving on but at that time i did not know where or when,planetary forces telling me something or spirit? all i know is that when i first started coming here to look for somewhere to live i felt like i was coming home,did i choose to take the risk or was i guided to it?
love and light
linda554 xx
Adam thank you for yr blog, much of what you says rings bells. I promised myself years ago that i would never get involved in a love triangle but i took the risk after what i truly felt and was assured by 2 psychics that if i went with the flow everything would work out for us. Apparently we had been together in a previous life for a while but one of us died so in this lifetime we had been brought back together by spirit to have a long life together. Recently all has come to a complete holt no contact nothing, feel he is in a bad place in himself ! this week i have had 2 very negative readings on the situation for the long term future. I wont beat myself up about the fact i took a risk and lost the fight but i will just carry on with life got no choice but will make plans to have things to look forward to..I will always love him and still wish for him to be in my life again.. Never had a reading with you but maybe one day when i get my trust in spirit back, back to being a skeptic im afraid !! Love and light x