Monthly Archives: September 2009

Thought of the day… Henry

‘If  animals could talk…………’ 

We’d have a lot more respect for these lovely creatures that we share this earth with if we were able to communicate with them.

How many times have you come back from work and been greeted by your loyal dog and found yourself wondering what on earth was going through its mind….I assure you, you won’t be the only one scratching their head when you just can’t understand why your cat doesn’t want its regular bowl of food and walks off in apparent disgust……

Animals as a whole don’t want for much. A loving owner or pack leader, some water and some regular nosh and a bit of shelter…..sound familiar?

We can take a lot of lessons off animals, after all we are animals ourselves…..we just tend to conveniently forget it……

As an animal healer, I look at animals as equals…….to be honest, a lot of the time they make a heck a lot more sense than the average person. They don’t have ‘earthly’ attachments as we like to call them but I assure you,  they have to harbour loads of our emotional rubbish without us being aware that we’ve put it onto them………they are constantly sending out unconditional love…..AMAZING….even with all that rubbish flying about……

We are so similar to our four legged brethren and sisters, apart from one vital thing….unconditional love and of course ‘money things’…….

We all make such a point ,whether we are aware of it or not of being very selective about who we send our love out to. Let’s start to make a concerted effort in actually trying to take people for who they really are and not feel threatened by their appearance or creed. Because quite simply, the more love that is circulating around our lives the more people will feel inclined to love and to send out love….a bit of a knock on effect going on I reckon. Like a dog will get the occasional slap even when it’s loving its owner, so will we, but that’s just life. Have a think about it and by being more loving in an unconditional way, you’re giving people permission to do the same…….. 
 
 
 
 

Copyright Henry Cumming 2009

Thought of the day… Rosa

The relationships we create! 
 

Now then….This topic came to me whilst I was trying to get to sleep, last night.

  Tossing and turning, I decided to just lie still in supine position, and allow, today’s material for my show to take shape. This is what I was given. 

Rewind: “Flash backs” from my past, relationships came flooding in. The first, real   relationship that would have changed the pattern of my life path completely, if I’d stayed the distance was with a lovely man Called Steve. Orbell  

I was just 17 years old, very mature for my age and full of energy and attitude! (Yes you can imagine) I met Steve,  at a party we flirted, and exchanged telephone numbers To cut a very long story short, we went on to have a 6 year relationship, which was very relevant indeed Because…..  

I left home at 17.  My Father, bless him, was a very strict Roman Catholic Southern Italian man stuck in the Victorian era! I have to feel for him really,  because he really did think that he was doing his best by bringing up 5 children, in London having migrated from Southern Italy to make a better life for his family. He ended up, as many Italians did back then, in South London. A wonderful place called The Elephant and Castle! YES …Famous for its Greyness and lack of soul! although things are changing and in 5 to 10 years time, I predict a 2nd canary wharf? Not sure if that’s a good or bad thing,  I got out as quickly as I could! 

The likes of Roger Moore and Michael Kane are the fruits of this marvellous place!!!! Anyway… 

My relationship with Steve was a WAY OUT. (I did love him though) I needed to live,   and breathe. This was almost impossible to do, with a father that had real problems with his girls growing up and becoming REAL WOMAN He failed miserably with us all, in trying to control what we did, and who we did it with and as a conscience, lost out big time because in the end, we did things in our own way any how which he couldn’t, and never did accept!  ….. Moving on ….  

If I had stayed with my first love, I would have created a very different life to the one I have today, No doubt. I would have had a least 4 great children, perhaps never have perused a career that reflected what was in my heart and soul, and for sure would have felt a little cheated, because I followed a family pattern out of Fear and probably would have felt, that I never reached, my true potential! (Don’t get the tissues out yet) 

If I went through my whole relationship history, as interesting as it’s been I’d get told off, for writing too much so…..

My point is that we never just “fall into our relationships” WE CREATE THEM what ever our reasons or motives are. 

I went on to have just one other significant relationship before I met my Husband.  Lots of insignificant ones in between,  but really I was always looking to connect and feel deep passionate love!  This, has always been my mission Venus in Libra in the 6th house Mars in Scorpio,  in the 7th I couldn’t have it any other way! All my Astro sisters and brothers will understand what I mean. 

Would I have done anything differently? Probably Not.  However I’m always up for learning and growing.  Every break up, or break down I had, no matter how significant or not, always had a profound impact on me. 

When I look back, I can actually see why certain relationships never worked out.  They were never meant to. They simply “ran their course” and were a reflection of where I was at, at that time.  

My intention and motivation, was and always is Pure,  which is why, I have No regrets when it comes to my relationships. Past and present.  

See you then

Rosa xx  

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Thought of the day…Sally Love

Letting Go and Embracing Change

We’ve had some wonderful warm sunshine over the past few days, so you would be forgiven for questioning whether the autumn has arrived. However the abundance of conkers and falling golden leaves in my local park remind me of the seasonal change we are going through.

 Autumn is the perfect time for us to look at letting go (just like the leaves falling from the trees) and stepping into change (with the turning of a new season).

 For the last four years I have held my Saturday practice at a wonderful office in Piccadilly, central London. I have adored working there as the building is stunning – with a grand golden staircase spiralling around a central lift and beautiful art deco features. It’s been perfectly located – easy for me and my clients to get to. I had grown very attached to my office there over the years.

 Well, this Saturday was my last day working at that office, as the office management company had to leave the building. So I have had to face an enforced change in my life. I sat there after a day’s work on Saturday thinking of how I have changed over the years, including the changes my clients have been through and how my work has evolved too. I was dreading leaving the building for the last time, but after thanking the spirits of place, I walked out looking forward to a new beginning.

 I will now be working at a new office in Trafalgar Square which is bigger, has a view of the London Eye and you can also apparently hear Big Ben chiming the hours. So I’m now excited about a change I was dreading. I’m looking forward to seeing what my new relationship with this building will bring.

 Change – no matter whether it’s big or small – involves some letting go of the familiar. This can be scary as we step into the unknown. But once we do let go and embrace that change, we allow ourselves new space to grow, giving us a wonderful opportunity to evolve into something even better.

 Therefore on today’s show I want to help you let go and embrace change. I will be looking at your own individual circumstances and giving you various techniques to help you move forward with complete confidence.

 Let’s do it!