Your Dream Psychic

IF YOU DON’T ASK……… 

Just over a month ago, a little before the Full Moon in Virgo, a mega earthquake struck Chile and there have been daily aftershocks as the Earth adjusts to the new alignment and since then I have come across many, many questions relating to your personal lives also undergoing a series of shifts and aftershocks.  

Monday’s Full Moon at 9 degrees Libra is the culmination of a cycle of readjustment as we leave behind old ways of “being and doing” as we move ahead into new territory. This Full Moon and the New Moon in Aries on the 14^th of April, marks the halfway point between eclipses in Capricorn and Cancer which means that we’re at a critical turning point.  

With the Moon in Libra opposite the Sun in Aries, our main focus will be on how we balance our own needs with those of others. This is never easy, particularly if you have been brought up to put the needs of others before your own. Many of us are rethinking the load we’re carrying and how much additional weight we can support when others don’t do their part. How willing are you to keep doing a job that’s not yours? How many times to do text or call without a response? How many times do you keep picking up someone else’s dirty socks, or are you constantly bailing out irresponsible relatives, or, forgiving those who constantly disappoint or hurt you?

At some point, we just can’t do it anymore. 

Women of my generation were raised to put husband, kids, boyfriends, boss, and everyone but themselves first. Old patterns don’t change overnight, but there will be some important changes on the way, thanks to Venus, the ruler of the Full Moon, in “me-first” Aries.  

Admittedly, she’s not at her best in Aries, precisely because the divine feminine she represents is expected to be soft, sweet, communicative, and other people-oriented. Well, forget that! A strong sense of self is prerequisite to so many things in life, and it can make relationships a lot easier when you directly tell others what you want and need. That doesn’t mean you’ll get it, but at least you’ll be clear about why you’re making your point. People often don’t want to be direct about their needs because they fear confrontation. 

But with this full Moon you probably won’t be able to avoid a bit of a bumpy ride,

so you might as well speak up for yourself and remember that change simply can’t happen without ruffling a few feathers. This full Moon inspires us to restore some semblance of balance, so make that your goal between now and the New Moon in Aries on the 14^th of April, when new directions will become clear in unexpected areas of your life, but remember we’ll need to be ready to hit the ground running and change in an instant. 

One last consideration is that the way to deep healing is by communicating your needs and desires. Again, it doesn’t mean you’ll get everything you want, but you certainly won’t get it if you don’t ask. 

Love Lee