Katie Keeley
Ever wondered why some people get all the luck? According to new research, it’s just a state of mind, the experts have given.
Think LUCKY!!
The best opportunities arise when you approach life with a flexible mind set. Here’s how to change how you think
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
If YOU think this way….
“Here’s my checklist. He has to be smart, attractive, financially secure, love cooking and love dogs.”
… then try this approach instead: “I don’t really have a type. I’ open to anyone as long as he’s a good person.
PRIME YOURSELF FOR CHANCE
Serendipity smiles upon people who have a more relaxed approach to life. They have clarified their long term goals, but don’t worry too much bout the details.
Once they’ve pinpointe4d the ultimate goal, they believe there4 are many ways to get there. This requires openness to life4s surprising twists and turns as well as cognitive and behavioural flexibility.
An open person heads to a dog park thinking he might encounter a new friend/business partner/romantic interest. A closed person sees only dog owners.
You can increase your opportunities for luck by having a large network of friends & being flexible. Take different routes to work and go to different places.
Exploring new territory naturally increases good fortune. Ant try to keep your mood positive. Anxiety give us tunnel vision: while focusing on potential danger we miss potentially beneficial information.
Hi gorgeous!
Katie I have now dubbed you as my ‘positivity guru’ and I shall take up your blog advice! Anytime a naughty negative thought enters my little head, I think of you and red knickers and that kicks the thought right back out again!!!
No more check lists for the men..as long as they have a pulse I’m open!!!!!
Thanks Katie and have a lovely day everyone x
Ciara
i don’t know, i really dont know why aquarians are the best people on the planet. Oh well,not to worry. Yes, best to not worry about details , they’re not worth worrying over,unless you let them, and then of course they are. Then it becomes a worry that you are worrying about them.